September 2024 – Nkosinathi Mthembu, 35, reflects on a childhood filled with hardship and loss. After the passing of his mother in 1994 and his grandmother in 1996, Nkosinathi found himself moving from one family to another, facing instability and abuse. It was during these turbulent years that he was placed in several children’s homes and at the age of 15, his journey led him to Girls and Boys Town South Africa (GBTSA) in Durban.

From the moment he stepped foot on the campus, Nkosinathi knew this was a special place. “When I visited Girls and Boys Town South Africa for the first time, I was struck by how different it was from other homes I had been in. It felt like a place where I could finally belong, where I could be safe,” he recalls. The structured environment and the warmth of the staff made him feel welcomed and hopeful. He eagerly took part in the programmes offered and worked hard to make the most of his time there.
It was at GBTSA that Nkosinathi developed vital skills that would shape his future. He credits the institution with helping him improve his communication, particularly his eloquency in English, which has become a source of pride. “The way I speak, the confidence I have in interviews, it all started there. People still compliment my English today and that’s thanks to Girls and Boys Town.”

Beyond the language skills, Nkosinathi was introduced to leadership opportunities that would leave a lasting impact on his life. He fondly remembers participating in the leadership skills programme and even being appointed as the “Minister of Justice” within the Boys Town leadership system. In this role, he learned responsibility, discipline and the importance of fairness, sparking his passion for law. “It was like being part of a mini society and that experience planted the seed in me to one day pursue a career in law.”
The support Nkosinathi received from the staff was unwavering. “What made Girls and Boys Town stand out was how much the staff genuinely cared about us. They went above and beyond, offering support not only with schoolwork but with life itself. We had access to youth care workers who specialised in teaching and even a social worker who was always there when things got tough. That kind of care and guidance isn’t something you find just anywhere.”

Despite the many opportunities offered at GBTSA, the road after leaving wasn’t easy. Nkosinathi admits that the transition was difficult. Without family support, he faced numerous challenges trying to build a life for himself. “There were times when I lost focus and the pressures of life took over. But what I learned at Girls and Boys Town—about independence, resilience and the importance of education—kept me going.”

Today, Nkosinathi is a proud graduate, having completed three qualifications, including a diploma in Criminal Justice and Forensic Investigation, a certification in Security Management and his law degree (LLB). He is currently working with a company called Calvin and Family while gaining experience in the legal field, with aspirations of becoming a fraud investigator. His journey is a powerful reminder of the importance of second chances and the life-changing impact of organisations like Girls and Boys Town.
Nkosinathi continues to stay in touch with GBTSA and is forever grateful for their ongoing support. “Even after I left, they were there for me. They helped me with a security course that contributed to funding my education. I wouldn’t be where I am today without their help.”

When asked what message he would give to those currently at Girls and Boys Town South Africa, Nkosinathi is clear: “Education is the key to everything. No matter the challenges, stay focused on your education because it will open doors you never thought possible. Take full advantage of what Girls and Boys Town South Africa offers—this place can change your life.”
As for potential supporters, Nkosinathi has this to say: “Your support makes a world of difference. It’s not just a donation; it’s an investment in someone’s future, in giving them a chance they wouldn’t otherwise have. Girls and Boys Town South Africa gave me that chance and I will be forever grateful.”